Cheating is horrible experience para sa atin. Mas malala pa sa normal na hiwalayan.
Maybe you are in relationship now or single or married and gusto mo maging aware.
Well marami naman info sa internet pano malalaman na nag che cheat partner mo. Pero mas ok siguro kung na experience mo na at gusto mo i share diba?
Dahil lalake ako well basically ang i e exposed ko ay experience sa babae. I dont know kung the same behaviors rin ito sa lalake. Sorry di ako cheater na lalake eh kaya ala ako alam lol.
Warning:This is just on my experience. And maybe not overall siguro eto ang signs. Pero i see a lot of stories na may similarities ang behaviors sa akin at sa iba. Nag research rin ako anong dahilan bakit ganyan behavior nila so here we go.
Sneaky behavior sa mga phones nila.
-Usually in normal relationship we respect naman in terms of privacy diba? Being a matured person ayaw ko naman all over access sa aking phone. Like ang dahilan is "Lack of trust kumbaga". But i freely naman ibigay ang aking phone kung wala naman akong tinatago. Kung makiki text, take pictures etc. Cheaters doesnt do that. They are so sneaky on there phones.
-Based on my experience yung humiram ako ng phone nya (Maganda kase cam) to picture a sunset sa park. Ayaw nya ibigay yung phone nya at gumagawa sya ng illogical reason. Dati sa start of relationship i freely use her phone to take a
picture. I have gut feelings on that time.
Hot and cold treatment palagi.
-Probably the most legit na shino show ng mga cheaters. Usually meron namang times na wala sa mood or pagod sa work. Pero if he/she constantly causing drama like accused you, gaslight you. Dealing with a hot treatment palagi wants to sabotage your relationship or showing signs na gusto nya na ma destroy kayo. Also cold treatment while in calls or chat tila ba di na nag kwe kwento about the day. One word chat. Or tuwing nagsasama kayo ay tila ba nawawalan na ng gana. Signs of this are low attraction and nawala na yung respeto nya sayo. (Palagi) minsan kase ang babae tinotoyo dahil may mga hormonal imbalances or menstruation
pero kung aggresive at consistent magdalawang isip kana. Baka may iba ng tao ang nasa isip nya.
Unusual going out. Not consistent sa mga days na dapat time nyo.
-Marami mga times na nangyari sa akin ang ganun. Supposedly na kaming dalawa ay bakante tuwing sundays. Laging rason na mga cheaters. "Sorry may pupuntahan kami ni (insert name)." at laging gumagawa ng rason na di kayo magsasama at mag hangout. Sometimes is valid kung minsanan lang at legit ang rason but kung maraming times na should i say skipping a lot of dates and mababang rason para tablahin ang araw ninyo are bad signs.
Always topic about this particular "GIRL" or "GUY"
-The biggest red flag of this cheaters are they always topic about this particular guy or girl. Lalong lalo na they are complimenting always this particular person at yan ang laman ng conversation nyo. These are the signs that they are been attracted on this person at maari ay papunta na sya sa cheating stage or nag che cheat na sya. Mostly dealbreaker na to at know the truth or comfront her or him that nag che cheat na sya. Example is coworker, this guy or girl na kakilala na nya already.
Also i add the lack of intimacy in bed or depleted na yung bed fun.
If ever man mahuli nyo na nag che cheat partner nyo. The most important thing that you do is to break up on her or him. Dont beg na makipagbalikan and wag ka magalit or gumawa ng eskandalo (baka ikaw pa yung mabaliktad. Remember too much emotions make people illogical) remain calm. Cut her or him all of the contacts that you have. And if you want to feel her or him a remorse sa kasalanan nya about cheating at engot ka makipag balikan i will encourage to do NO CONTACT and will post about that soon.
-For me if once lang nangyari and you have a kids involve maybe you can give a chance (kung doormat ka talaga) and still do NO CONTACT. But in terms of relationship big NO na sa akin.
Maybe you can drop replies or signs about your experiences so that PHC members are aware and hindi sila mabibigla kung may mangyari sa kanila ang mga ganito.
CHEATERS ARE SELFISH PERSONS. KUNG ANO MAN ANG KAKULANGAN NINYO OR RASON BAKIT NAG CHEAT. ANG MALI AY MALI. AT WALANG JUSTIFIABLE REASON NA MAGIGING TAMA ANG CHEATING.
-solofly
Maybe you are in relationship now or single or married and gusto mo maging aware.
Well marami naman info sa internet pano malalaman na nag che cheat partner mo. Pero mas ok siguro kung na experience mo na at gusto mo i share diba?
Dahil lalake ako well basically ang i e exposed ko ay experience sa babae. I dont know kung the same behaviors rin ito sa lalake. Sorry di ako cheater na lalake eh kaya ala ako alam lol.
Warning:This is just on my experience. And maybe not overall siguro eto ang signs. Pero i see a lot of stories na may similarities ang behaviors sa akin at sa iba. Nag research rin ako anong dahilan bakit ganyan behavior nila so here we go.
Sneaky behavior sa mga phones nila.
-Usually in normal relationship we respect naman in terms of privacy diba? Being a matured person ayaw ko naman all over access sa aking phone. Like ang dahilan is "Lack of trust kumbaga". But i freely naman ibigay ang aking phone kung wala naman akong tinatago. Kung makiki text, take pictures etc. Cheaters doesnt do that. They are so sneaky on there phones.
-Based on my experience yung humiram ako ng phone nya (Maganda kase cam) to picture a sunset sa park. Ayaw nya ibigay yung phone nya at gumagawa sya ng illogical reason. Dati sa start of relationship i freely use her phone to take a
picture. I have gut feelings on that time.
Hot and cold treatment palagi.
-Probably the most legit na shino show ng mga cheaters. Usually meron namang times na wala sa mood or pagod sa work. Pero if he/she constantly causing drama like accused you, gaslight you. Dealing with a hot treatment palagi wants to sabotage your relationship or showing signs na gusto nya na ma destroy kayo. Also cold treatment while in calls or chat tila ba di na nag kwe kwento about the day. One word chat. Or tuwing nagsasama kayo ay tila ba nawawalan na ng gana. Signs of this are low attraction and nawala na yung respeto nya sayo. (Palagi) minsan kase ang babae tinotoyo dahil may mga hormonal imbalances or menstruation
pero kung aggresive at consistent magdalawang isip kana. Baka may iba ng tao ang nasa isip nya.Unusual going out. Not consistent sa mga days na dapat time nyo.
-Marami mga times na nangyari sa akin ang ganun. Supposedly na kaming dalawa ay bakante tuwing sundays. Laging rason na mga cheaters. "Sorry may pupuntahan kami ni (insert name)." at laging gumagawa ng rason na di kayo magsasama at mag hangout. Sometimes is valid kung minsanan lang at legit ang rason but kung maraming times na should i say skipping a lot of dates and mababang rason para tablahin ang araw ninyo are bad signs.
Always topic about this particular "GIRL" or "GUY"
-The biggest red flag of this cheaters are they always topic about this particular guy or girl. Lalong lalo na they are complimenting always this particular person at yan ang laman ng conversation nyo. These are the signs that they are been attracted on this person at maari ay papunta na sya sa cheating stage or nag che cheat na sya. Mostly dealbreaker na to at know the truth or comfront her or him that nag che cheat na sya. Example is coworker, this guy or girl na kakilala na nya already.
Also i add the lack of intimacy in bed or depleted na yung bed fun.
If ever man mahuli nyo na nag che cheat partner nyo. The most important thing that you do is to break up on her or him. Dont beg na makipagbalikan and wag ka magalit or gumawa ng eskandalo (baka ikaw pa yung mabaliktad. Remember too much emotions make people illogical) remain calm. Cut her or him all of the contacts that you have. And if you want to feel her or him a remorse sa kasalanan nya about cheating at engot ka makipag balikan i will encourage to do NO CONTACT and will post about that soon.
-For me if once lang nangyari and you have a kids involve maybe you can give a chance (kung doormat ka talaga) and still do NO CONTACT. But in terms of relationship big NO na sa akin.
Maybe you can drop replies or signs about your experiences so that PHC members are aware and hindi sila mabibigla kung may mangyari sa kanila ang mga ganito.
CHEATERS ARE SELFISH PERSONS. KUNG ANO MAN ANG KAKULANGAN NINYO OR RASON BAKIT NAG CHEAT. ANG MALI AY MALI. AT WALANG JUSTIFIABLE REASON NA MAGIGING TAMA ANG CHEATING.
-solofly
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