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1.Tell him the truth
It's plain and simple. If a man asks you that you are not particularly interested, tell him directly that you are not interested in him.You don’t really have to be rude at first unless he perseveres. You don’t really owe every man who falls in love with you an explanation about why you’re not interested in him, or why you want him to reject
2.Tell him you would rather be friends
If you want to reject a guy, but aren’t sure you’d want to lose him because he became a best friend, tell him you don’t want to go out with him, but you’d rather be friends instead.It’s a little selfish, and best used when you’re not sure of yourself. Take a little time to figure it out, and depending on how things are going, you can always change your mind! However, you are carrying him, so you have to be careful not to lead him inadvertently.
3.Make It Clear
If the man you rejected asks you to rejoin him, it’s time to be firm. You have been gentle before. So at this time, tell him clearly and firmly that there is no way you can like him back. And also tell him that you are starting to get annoyed with his behavior.
Many people have the annoying habit of wanting to know the logical reason behind why you reject them. They want you to explain it, and even if you do, they try to justify it and want more explanations.So instead of tying yourself up, just clarify your denial and don’t go into elaborate details. He won’t be happy with your answers, no matter what you say.
4.Tell him you need to avoid him for a while
If he is a friend, it is a masked threat that they are afraid to accept your decision. When he keeps hinting about dating or hooking up, tell him you’re starting to get annoyed with his behavior.Tell him you started not liking him, and can avoid him, and how much he asks you out, you’ll just like him ghost.
5.Pretend to be saddened by his proposal
If someone is a bit persistent, but still, a bit kind and nice, talk to him. Tell him you are angry and saddened by his perseverance. Tell him you are having a hard time deciding the day because of his relentless proposals.When you show your sensitive side to a kind person, there’s a good chance he or she will turn away even if he or she still wants to ask you over and over again.
How to reject a man cruelly;
6 .Avoid Men
Now some people can be nice, but their persistence can be really annoying. Avoid the man, and make it clear that you are avoiding him. If he asks you about it, you can tell him you tried something else, but he just didn’t get the point.
7.Avoid talking to him alone
Boys like it when the girl they like is just there talking to them. It shows more favorable treatment than other men. So avoid giving any signs that may be positive.
Avoid the guy, and even if he tells you he wants to talk to you alone, don’t give him a chance. Tell him that you will only talk to him alone when you are convinced he is not hitting you
8.Be Rude
If being firm doesn’t help, be rude. But play hot and cold. You don’t want to upset the psycho boy! Hang up with him or ignore his texts. Tell him you're done talking to him, and you don't want him to text you anymore.You can soften the blow later if you get frustrated with the whole thing. text him ‘I just want you to understand. I really don’t want to end our friendship this way, but you leave me helpless. Why don't you get it, I don't want you and I never will… Being overly rude to a man can sometimes make him vindictive and bitter. You won’t like that, so showing him your softer side amidst all the cold shoulders and hate texts will really make him blush!
9.Cut him off from your social circle
Text him and let him know you can no longer tolerate his behavior. Tell him you want to be friends and nothing more than that.
Tell him that you will remove him from your friends lists on social networking sites. Tell him you will avoid him if you get to know him. And tell him you will never answer his calls.And finally, tell him you’re willing to be friends only if you can look at you as a friend and act as one. Explain to him that you can call you again the day you can look at you as a friend and nothing else. If he can do that, tell him, that's how you'll be friends again.
10.Ignore Him
The final boundary that will always work. If you have tried all the aforementioned points, then this should be your last choice. After you cut him off from your life, don’t ignore him anymore. Walk up to him, and don’t wave or look at him. If he deals with you, be kind and warm up as well. Don't be rude.Being completely rude when he tries to talk to you will make you more motivated. Talk to him like he's five years old. Explain to him properly that you have already told him what he should do. Both of you can be friends if he promises to look at you as a friend. And then tell him you’re apologizing, but you really can’t speak anymore and walk away.
excerpt from: lovememakeUp
It's plain and simple. If a man asks you that you are not particularly interested, tell him directly that you are not interested in him.You don’t really have to be rude at first unless he perseveres. You don’t really owe every man who falls in love with you an explanation about why you’re not interested in him, or why you want him to reject
2.Tell him you would rather be friends
If you want to reject a guy, but aren’t sure you’d want to lose him because he became a best friend, tell him you don’t want to go out with him, but you’d rather be friends instead.It’s a little selfish, and best used when you’re not sure of yourself. Take a little time to figure it out, and depending on how things are going, you can always change your mind! However, you are carrying him, so you have to be careful not to lead him inadvertently.
3.Make It Clear
If the man you rejected asks you to rejoin him, it’s time to be firm. You have been gentle before. So at this time, tell him clearly and firmly that there is no way you can like him back. And also tell him that you are starting to get annoyed with his behavior.
Many people have the annoying habit of wanting to know the logical reason behind why you reject them. They want you to explain it, and even if you do, they try to justify it and want more explanations.So instead of tying yourself up, just clarify your denial and don’t go into elaborate details. He won’t be happy with your answers, no matter what you say.
4.Tell him you need to avoid him for a while
If he is a friend, it is a masked threat that they are afraid to accept your decision. When he keeps hinting about dating or hooking up, tell him you’re starting to get annoyed with his behavior.Tell him you started not liking him, and can avoid him, and how much he asks you out, you’ll just like him ghost.
5.Pretend to be saddened by his proposal
If someone is a bit persistent, but still, a bit kind and nice, talk to him. Tell him you are angry and saddened by his perseverance. Tell him you are having a hard time deciding the day because of his relentless proposals.When you show your sensitive side to a kind person, there’s a good chance he or she will turn away even if he or she still wants to ask you over and over again.
How to reject a man cruelly;6 .Avoid Men
Now some people can be nice, but their persistence can be really annoying. Avoid the man, and make it clear that you are avoiding him. If he asks you about it, you can tell him you tried something else, but he just didn’t get the point.
7.Avoid talking to him alone
Boys like it when the girl they like is just there talking to them. It shows more favorable treatment than other men. So avoid giving any signs that may be positive.
Avoid the guy, and even if he tells you he wants to talk to you alone, don’t give him a chance. Tell him that you will only talk to him alone when you are convinced he is not hitting you
8.Be Rude
If being firm doesn’t help, be rude. But play hot and cold. You don’t want to upset the psycho boy! Hang up with him or ignore his texts. Tell him you're done talking to him, and you don't want him to text you anymore.You can soften the blow later if you get frustrated with the whole thing. text him ‘I just want you to understand. I really don’t want to end our friendship this way, but you leave me helpless. Why don't you get it, I don't want you and I never will… Being overly rude to a man can sometimes make him vindictive and bitter. You won’t like that, so showing him your softer side amidst all the cold shoulders and hate texts will really make him blush!
9.Cut him off from your social circle
Text him and let him know you can no longer tolerate his behavior. Tell him you want to be friends and nothing more than that.
Tell him that you will remove him from your friends lists on social networking sites. Tell him you will avoid him if you get to know him. And tell him you will never answer his calls.And finally, tell him you’re willing to be friends only if you can look at you as a friend and act as one. Explain to him that you can call you again the day you can look at you as a friend and nothing else. If he can do that, tell him, that's how you'll be friends again.
10.Ignore Him
The final boundary that will always work. If you have tried all the aforementioned points, then this should be your last choice. After you cut him off from your life, don’t ignore him anymore. Walk up to him, and don’t wave or look at him. If he deals with you, be kind and warm up as well. Don't be rude.Being completely rude when he tries to talk to you will make you more motivated. Talk to him like he's five years old. Explain to him properly that you have already told him what he should do. Both of you can be friends if he promises to look at you as a friend. And then tell him you’re apologizing, but you really can’t speak anymore and walk away.
excerpt from: lovememakeUp
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