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Most of us tend to get confused between love and lust.
How do we identify this two? and what are the implications we need to know?
Lets try to find out here.


When we say lust is an intense sexual attraction to another person
-lust can be the glue that draws us to a partner and allows for deep physical connection
-lust is fueled by idealization and projection of what we want to see rather than the reality of the person and situation.
-Additionally, it is a wild and dangerous misconception that ongoing lust is the expectation for a long-term relationship.
-lust alone is interest only in the partner sexually.
-it attempts to keep the relationship on an ideal level
-it loses interest when you discover a person's flaws.
-it is about immediate gratification.
-enjoys the fantasy and excitement of the interaction.
  • can be impulsive and desperate.
  • a high that can feel like an addiction and consume all your mental space; it's closely linked with You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.
-it dissipates over time.



When we say Love
-It is a bit more complex.
-it has delights and sufferings has often appeared a mystery, defined in an infinite number of ways throughout human history.
- From an You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now., love is a basic human need that keeps us bonded to the people who matter most.
-A secure, loving attachment with a romantic partner involves a deep affection, trust, and acceptance of a person, flaws and all.
-it is interest in getting to know the person over time..
-It expands to having difficult conversations and exploring painful emotions.
-It accepts a person's positive and negative qualities.
-It develops trust and commitment over a long period of time.
-feels risky and vulnerable because it involves opening yourself up and letting yourself be known.
-It tends to be steady and secure.
-It holds a more balanced perspective and allows for the ability to maintain a balanced life.
-lastly ,it persists.



To sum it up
In love and lust, there are no norms, no shoulds, no right way. You can fall in love after a single passionate night and end up married with three kids. You can be friends with someone for years and with a single touch or change of perspective, find yourself head over heels. You can have a year of steamy casual *** with someone and never fall in love. You can love someone you're You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.. You can find yourself feeling dead inside after years with a partner and have passion reawakened by touching your partner in a new way of seeing how desirable they are You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now.. All of the above and everything in between is possible.


excerpt from: mindbodygreen
 
Dagdag ko na ang ibig sabihin ng lust is sexual desire din. Basta intense o strong emotion. Meron nga tinatawag na lust of power, meaning having strong desire of power.

Sa panahon ng Judaism ay ipinagbabawal na magkaroon ng strong emotion o tipong extremely expressive. It is a reason na nagkaroon ng laws na bind marriage para sa husband and wife kung saan dati-rati, masyado na common ang sëx sa kanila. Ang naalala ko kase, dat-rati, meron silang itinatawag na brothel. Normal iyon- noon. So kahit married ang lalake at babae, sabi, magka separate pa daw ng room while ang husband ay free mag visit sa brothel.

Sa kabilang dako, meron ako napapanood na ang wife ay nakikipag s3x sa slave.

So ang lust ay applicable lang sa husband and wife. Nga naman kase pagbawalan ang lust sa mag-asawa or else hindi sila magkaka anak.

So kapag extremely in love ang husband o wife, its normal na magkaroon ng sexual desire and express emotions sa tao na mahal nila.

Ngayon, ang mga mag syota na hindi married at nag se s3x silang dalawa o meron ilan lalake o babae na nakipag s3x na hindi kasal, hindi natin malalaman kung nakipag s3x lang na without love o meron s3x with love unless ma experience mismo (which is risky dahil hindi natin alam kung makakatuluyan o hindi) at iyon ang dahilan na bakit nagkaroon ng bind marriage only for husband and wife. Kung baga panigurado na hindi maghihiwalay.

Depende sa motibo ng bawat tao dahil siya at siya lang naman nakakaalam sa sarili.

Dagdag na dahil s3x is tinagurian madumi, kasalanan, evil o daan papuntang impyerno- ang s3x for husband and wife ay dapat hindi allowed o bawal siya but ang question ay pa paano magkakaroon ng anak kung wala naman sexual desire. Siyempre pwede na po sa mag-asawa.
 
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