Not legal relationship

[Yoshikazuha]

My girlfriend decided to end up our relationship because she said its not legal and we did not start from a good process of relationship like asking for her parent if she can be in a relationship. And she tell me that I've should improve myself and she will tell me if her parents will allow her to be in relationship and she tell me that nothings gonna change its our label only. My question is this really what should we do? Please pahinge advise kasi wala ako ibang makausap na kaibigan

 

[Professora Akira]

Nasa anung age na po ba kayo?If you're in the right age naman siguro pwedi na ipaalam sa both parents instead of hiding it.Mas ok nga yung open kayo both sa families eh.Yun nga lang mostly,pag strict yung parents mahirap talaga mag risk na ipaalam ang relationship.

 

[Yoshikazuha]

Nasa anung age na po ba kayo?If you're in the right age naman siguro pwedi na ipaalam sa both parents instead of hiding it.Mas ok nga yung open kayo both sa families eh.Yun nga lang mostly,pag strict yung parents mahirap talaga mag risk na ipaalam ang relationship.

21 po ako sya po 19. And yes napakastrict nga po parents. Ang gawin ko nalang ba us hintayin kung kailan sya pwedep payagan ng parents nya or should I make a move sa parents nya?

 

[Professora Akira]

21 po ako sya po 19. And yes napakastrict nga po parents. Ang gawin ko nalang ba us hintayin kung kailan sya pwedep payagan ng parents nya or should I make a move sa parents nya?

Medyu young pa nga po talaga ,pero in some ways ,makapag antay naman po siguro.You can still be friend pa din naman while waiting diba? why not try to aim muna to be her parents favorite people list,by making good first impression kahit friends na lang muna kayo.Try to build trust and demonstrate trustworthiness.Bigyan mo sila ng chance o opportunity to get to know you without jumping into that level of relationship na ikakagulat nila.You can at least try getting to know first her family,pero wag nyo muna e open up about sa relationship thing,unless both sides are ready na.

 

[Yoshikazuha]

Medyu young pa nga po talaga ,pero in some ways ,makapag antay naman po siguro.You can still be friend pa din naman while waiting diba? why not try to aim muna to be her parents favorite people list,by making good first impression kahit friends na lang muna kayo.Try to build trust and demonstrate trustworthiness.Bigyan mo sila ng chance o opportunity to get to know you without jumping into that level of relationship na ikakagulat nila.You can at least try getting to know first her family,pero wag nyo muna e open up about sa relationship thing,unless both sides are ready na.

May time kasi nuon na nalaman ng parents nya na in relationship kaming dalawa ng anak nya tapos nag talk kami ng parents nya na ang sabi is "All good things happen to those who wait and The road to get our trust back is hard". Ano po kaya dapat ko gawin para makausap ko parents nya ulit para makilala man lang nila sarili ko. Ang nasa isip ko is pgkatapos ng pag aaral kasi actually malapit na din ako mag graduating student sa college. Di ko alam if tama ba nasa isip ko

 

[Professora Akira]

May time kasi nuon na nalaman ng parents nya na in relationship kaming dalawa ng anak nya tapos nag talk kami ng parents nya na ang sabi is "All good things happen to those who wait and The road to get our trust back is hard". Ano po kaya dapat ko gawin para makausap ko parents nya ulit para makilala man lang nila sarili ko. Ang nasa isip ko is pgkatapos ng pag aaral kasi actually malapit na din ako mag graduating student sa college. Di ko alam if tama ba nasa isip ko

ahh so kinausap ka na pala.Well tama din naman parents nya diba all parents naman always want the best for their children,so yun na lang dapat nyo sundin anyways makapag aantay naman yan diba,Why not take the risk to wait nalang.If porsigido ka talaga sa kanya di mo naman sya susukuan agad agad eh and if sya talaga para sayo marami pa namang chances.Ganun talaga ang love not all the time makukuha mo agad gusto mo.You will encounterseveral obstacles at basic pa lang yan sa mga obstacles na ma eecounter momso habang maaga pa naman train yourself to have patience ,maraming pang ups and downs na darating later on na mas mabigat pa kaysa dyan.At a young age,focus ka muna sa goals mo sa sa studies mo, wag mo masyado stressin ang sarili mo sa mga bagay na yan,as long as di napuputol communication nyo lang yan.

 

[Yoshikazuha]

ahh so kinausap ka na pala.Well tama din naman parents nya diba all parents naman always want the best for their children,so yun na lang dapat nyo sundin anyways makapag aantay naman yan diba,Why not take the risk to wait nalang.If porsigido ka talaga sa kanya di mo naman sya susukuan agad agad eh and if sya talaga para sayo marami pa namang chances.Ganun talaga ang love not all the time makukuha mo agad gusto mo.You will encounterseveral obstacles at basic pa lang yan sa mga obstacles na ma eecounter momso habang maaga pa naman train yourself to have patience ,maraming pang ups and downs na darating later on na mas mabigat pa kaysa dyan.At a young age,focus ka muna sa goals mo sa sa studies mo, wag mo masyado stressin ang sarili mo sa mga bagay na yan,as long as di napuputol communication nyo lang yan.

Thank you po sa advise

 

[Clarie]

21 po ako sya po 19. And yes napakastrict nga po parents. Ang gawin ko nalang ba us hintayin kung kailan sya pwedep payagan ng parents nya or should I make a move sa parents nya?

For me, you should make move and make a promises na kailangan mo tuparin.

 

[Yoshikazuha]

For me, you should make move and make a promises na kailangan mo tuparin.

Kaso sinasabihan nya ako na wag muna daw kasi baka lumalaki daw lalo problema kasi di pa sya pinapayagan. Kaya wala ako choice kung ano po dapat gawin. Madami sana ako magawa kaso pinagbawalan nya ko kasi bawal pa

 

[Clarie]

Kaso sinasabihan nya ako na wag muna daw kasi baka lumalaki daw lalo problema kasi di pa sya pinapayagan. Kaya wala ako choice kung ano po dapat gawin. Madami sana ako magawa kaso pinagbawalan nya ko kasi bawal pa

Ok then follow ang importante doon is na fe feel mo pa na mahal ka niya

 

[JabolWock]

baka pag 40 na pwde tyagaan mo lng po