Meron akong barkada. In relationship sila for about 2 years ng GF niya. Then they broke up for whatever reason.
You know people na galing sa break up emote inuman and suddenly nagbalikan sila. Then a couple of months naman nag break up then nagbalikan na naman then nag break up na naman!
Suddenly you we're thinking bakit meron mga ganitong scenario. If you think logically alam na di na nag wo work ang relationship dapat hiwalay na diba?Bakit ang hirap makipag hiwalay at pinipilit pang mag work ang relationship?
What is sunk cost fallacy?
Para malinaw.
Basically nag i invest ka sa isang bagay na alam mo talo kana or di na mag wo work. Nag i invest ka ng nag i invest and it grows bigger and bigger until you can't recover from the lost.
The same in relationships. You invest your money, emotions, love and time. Dumating ang araw nag break na kayo. Kayong dalawa pinipilit na mag work ang relationship not because you love each other but because yung mga na invest nyo sa isat isa.
Mostly sa ganitong relationship leads to frustrations and toxic dahil pinipilit nyo ang isat isa.
Paano ba maiiwasan ma fall sa sunk cost fallacy?
1.Tanggapin ang reality na tapos na kayo-Wag pilitin ang relationship kapag wala ng pag asa ma fix or hindi nyo na mahal ang isat isa.
2.Establish some deal breakers-Deal breakers are important. Like mag set ka sa sarili mo na merong mga scenario na tapos na kayo (Like cheating, Nawala na yung respect, emotional and physical abuse etc.)
3.Not to invest 100%-Put it your mind na di lahat ng relationship eh magiging forever. Matutong magtira sa sarili mo. Basically wag mo isali pati kaluluwa mo pagdating sa relationship.
4.Love yourself first-Mahalin ang sarili mo muna bago mag enter ng relationship. Merong kasabihan na "Bago ka mag mahal ng iba dapat mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo".
5.Learn to not have fully attachments pag di pa kasal-Relationship supposedly getting to know each other and having fun. Have fun lang habang nanjan pa sya. Hindi ibig sabihin na di mag e exist ang forever. But realize that you dont have control on people kung mag sta stay sayo o hindi. Kahit ano pang effort ginawa mo. You can't force any human being. Pag ayaw nya then its fine pag naging LTR kayo then its fine parin. Think positive sa relationship but dont get attach too much to her or him. Have fun lang.
-https://neurofied.com/sunk-cost-fallacy/
You know people na galing sa break up emote inuman and suddenly nagbalikan sila. Then a couple of months naman nag break up then nagbalikan na naman then nag break up na naman!
Suddenly you we're thinking bakit meron mga ganitong scenario. If you think logically alam na di na nag wo work ang relationship dapat hiwalay na diba?Bakit ang hirap makipag hiwalay at pinipilit pang mag work ang relationship?
What is sunk cost fallacy?
Para malinaw.
Basically nag i invest ka sa isang bagay na alam mo talo kana or di na mag wo work. Nag i invest ka ng nag i invest and it grows bigger and bigger until you can't recover from the lost.
The same in relationships. You invest your money, emotions, love and time. Dumating ang araw nag break na kayo. Kayong dalawa pinipilit na mag work ang relationship not because you love each other but because yung mga na invest nyo sa isat isa.
Mostly sa ganitong relationship leads to frustrations and toxic dahil pinipilit nyo ang isat isa.
Paano ba maiiwasan ma fall sa sunk cost fallacy?
1.Tanggapin ang reality na tapos na kayo-Wag pilitin ang relationship kapag wala ng pag asa ma fix or hindi nyo na mahal ang isat isa.
2.Establish some deal breakers-Deal breakers are important. Like mag set ka sa sarili mo na merong mga scenario na tapos na kayo (Like cheating, Nawala na yung respect, emotional and physical abuse etc.)
3.Not to invest 100%-Put it your mind na di lahat ng relationship eh magiging forever. Matutong magtira sa sarili mo. Basically wag mo isali pati kaluluwa mo pagdating sa relationship.
4.Love yourself first-Mahalin ang sarili mo muna bago mag enter ng relationship. Merong kasabihan na "Bago ka mag mahal ng iba dapat mahalin mo muna ang sarili mo".
5.Learn to not have fully attachments pag di pa kasal-Relationship supposedly getting to know each other and having fun. Have fun lang habang nanjan pa sya. Hindi ibig sabihin na di mag e exist ang forever. But realize that you dont have control on people kung mag sta stay sayo o hindi. Kahit ano pang effort ginawa mo. You can't force any human being. Pag ayaw nya then its fine pag naging LTR kayo then its fine parin. Think positive sa relationship but dont get attach too much to her or him. Have fun lang.
-https://neurofied.com/sunk-cost-fallacy/