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This time we're going to talk about exes.
Yes it's indeed uncomfortable dealing with our past relationships especially when you bump into each other unexpectedly along the way.
Eventhoug the breakup was mutual and amicable you still can't hide those uncomfy feeling to each other once you've crosses paths either in person or in social media sites.
So take note below this simple tips to handle ex.
Breakups can be messy or clean. Regardless, there can be a lot of personal stuff to figure out. Give yourself as much time and space as you need before you even consider talking again.
Establish boundaries.
Some of us can be friends with our exes and some of us can’t. Make sure that you are in agreement about what is acceptable and unacceptable in your friendship. Be as clear as possible. Remember, this person is your ex for a reason. You do not want to fall into a trap.
Be nice.
This can be the worst, especially if you and your ex ended things on a sour note. Should you happen to see your ex out and about in public, more common that we probably like, just be cordial. Rest assured it is probably just as awkward and uncomfortable for them.
Stalk.
Leave the social media sites alone. Do not log onto Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, SnapChat, or any other site that you can think of to see what your ex is doing. Do not show up to places where you know your ex will be. This will only bring more drama, heartache, and pain and possibly inspire more stalking. You are stronger than that.
Hookup.
Do not hookup with his friends (it will not make him jealous) and do not hookup with him (it will only muddy your feelings). Seriously, be careful about this folks. This may feel like a good idea at the time but it will complicate matters, whether your breakup is new or old.
Trash talk.
We know you may be upset and be tempted to call your ex but please refrain. Would you like for your ex to run through town bad mouthing you? We bet not. Be respectful, after all you did care about this person at one point. We know you have to vent to someone. That is healthy. Tell your best buds. Do not tell your enemies, his best buds, or even at a stranger .
Above all else,Be patient, be kind and respect your feelings, and your own healing process.
excerpt from Gen.Twenty
Yes it's indeed uncomfortable dealing with our past relationships especially when you bump into each other unexpectedly along the way.
Eventhoug the breakup was mutual and amicable you still can't hide those uncomfy feeling to each other once you've crosses paths either in person or in social media sites.
So take note below this simple tips to handle ex.
Do…
Take some space.Breakups can be messy or clean. Regardless, there can be a lot of personal stuff to figure out. Give yourself as much time and space as you need before you even consider talking again.
Establish boundaries.
Some of us can be friends with our exes and some of us can’t. Make sure that you are in agreement about what is acceptable and unacceptable in your friendship. Be as clear as possible. Remember, this person is your ex for a reason. You do not want to fall into a trap.
Be nice.
This can be the worst, especially if you and your ex ended things on a sour note. Should you happen to see your ex out and about in public, more common that we probably like, just be cordial. Rest assured it is probably just as awkward and uncomfortable for them.
Do NOT…
Stalk.
Leave the social media sites alone. Do not log onto Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Tumblr, SnapChat, or any other site that you can think of to see what your ex is doing. Do not show up to places where you know your ex will be. This will only bring more drama, heartache, and pain and possibly inspire more stalking. You are stronger than that.
Hookup.
Do not hookup with his friends (it will not make him jealous) and do not hookup with him (it will only muddy your feelings). Seriously, be careful about this folks. This may feel like a good idea at the time but it will complicate matters, whether your breakup is new or old.
Trash talk.
We know you may be upset and be tempted to call your ex but please refrain. Would you like for your ex to run through town bad mouthing you? We bet not. Be respectful, after all you did care about this person at one point. We know you have to vent to someone. That is healthy. Tell your best buds. Do not tell your enemies, his best buds, or even at a stranger .
Above all else,Be patient, be kind and respect your feelings, and your own healing process.
excerpt from Gen.Twenty
para masaya 
pero for me mas maigi wag na haha
