Closed Should you know your bf/gf's social media password?

[pink_skies]

No offense to couples who open each other's social media accounts, pero I think it's healthier to have some sort of boundary when it comes to your personal -private- social media. I have friends who open their BF's messenger and it just seems to me na walang tiwala or parang laging hinahanapan ng something na pag-aawayan?

Idk, maybe this is just me.

 

[PHC-MrKira]

Experienced this. at talagang magkakaron at magkakaron ng pagseselosan at pagaawayan pag shared, ultimo mga friends lang classmates etc. andun na tayo sa para may tiwala pero di alam na mas nakakasira hindi pagtira ng kahit konting privacy para sa sarili, hindi lang nakakasira sainyong dalawa kundi pati sa mga tao sa paligid nyo, close friends, family etc..

 

[Kyklops]

i think it's "NO".
pero nasa inyo naman yun kung aalamin ang password.
kung ayaw ibigay alam na may something. hehehe..

 

[pink_skies]

Experienced this. at talagang magkakaron at magkakaron ng pagseselosan at pagaawayan pag shared, ultimo mga friends lang classmates etc. andun na tayo sa para may tiwala pero di alam na mas nakakasira hindi pagtira ng kahit konting privacy para sa sarili, hindi lang nakakasira sainyong dalawa kundi pati sa mga tao sa paligid nyo, close friends, family etc..

Di ba? Kasi minsan kahit hindi naman kailangan pag-awayan nagiging source ng away kapag pakiramdam mo wala siyang tiwala sayo.

 

[pink_skies]

i think it's "NO".
pero nasa inyo naman yun kung aalamin ang password.
kung ayaw ibigay alam na may something. hehehe..

Hahaha oo depende naman sa inyong dalawa.

 

[Kyklops]

Hahaha oo depende naman sa inyong dalawa.

kung wala namang tinatago, bakit hindi di ba?

 

[pink_skies]

kung wala namang tinatago, bakit hindi di ba?

Some people like their privacy. Hindi naman sa may tinatago, pero yun kasi yung supposedly private space mo sa internet.

 

[Coocognito]

Good topics to read.

 

[Kyklops]

Some people like their privacy. Hindi naman sa may tinatago, pero yun kasi yung supposedly private space mo sa internet.

yun din dapat na maunawaan ng bawat isa.

well for me, okay lang naman para ikakatahimik na rin ng kaluluwa nya **** isipan nya.

 

[Scavenger]

well it's a NO

pero sometimes kailangan talaga..like my case.. their's being weird in my GF's behavior lately.. so nagtaka ako.. bakit kaya.. to make the long story short.. I open her FB account. (without consent).. well it's not my type of person to open someone's account without permission.. but as of that moment. kailangan ko talagang suwayin yun.. at yun nga. nahuli ko.. kaya pala.. crystal clear message.

so what happened.. nagsimula ang away.?? well not really. but it mends the almost broken bonds between us..
As I'm saying.. generally NO... we should not open our partner's social media account. privacy nila at social life nila yun.. pero since magsyota kayo, meron karing part sa tinatawag nating social life nya (which includes her account).
that's why in times of needs, kailangan din natin yun..

hindi sa walang tiwala.. (but wait we always say. don't trust anyone. ahaha) kailangan din nating wag 100% na tiwala.. masasaktan din tayo nyan..

 

[pink_skies]

well it's a NO

pero sometimes kailangan talaga..like my case.. their's being weird in my GF's behavior lately.. so nagtaka ako.. bakit kaya.. to make the long story short.. I open her FB account. (without consent).. well it's not my type of person to open someone's account without permission.. but as of that moment. kailangan ko talagang suwayin yun.. at yun nga. nahuli ko.. kaya pala.. crystal clear message.

so what happened.. nagsimula ang away.?? well not really. but it mends the almost broken bonds between us..
As I'm saying.. generally NO... we should not open our partner's social media account. privacy nila at social life nila yun.. pero since magsyota kayo, meron karing part sa tinatawag nating social life nya (which includes her account).
that's why in times of needs, kailangan din natin yun..

hindi sa walang tiwala.. (but wait we always say. don't trust anyone. ahaha) kailangan din nating wag 100% na tiwala.. masasaktan din tayo nyan..

I agree on some level. Generally my point is if magch-cheat siya, magch-cheat talaga siya and choice niya yun. Gets ko yung protecting the relationship and sniffing out red flags pero the privacy thing shouldn't be the cause of the argument.

 

[Scavenger]

I agree on some level. Generally my point is if magch-cheat siya, magch-cheat talaga siya and choice niya yun. Gets ko yung protecting the relationship and sniffing out red flags pero the privacy thing shouldn't be the cause of the argument.

yeah right.. ni respect ko naman privacy nya.. just that one time lang talaga.. buti nalang di nadulot ng disaster.. after that incident. I told her to change her password.. pero ayaw nya. so that's her choice..
di ko lang talaga maisip na kaya pala nya yun.. at wala naman akong nagawang mali para magawa nya yun.. kaya ayun. nag sorry.. everything done. trust is back... thanks na rin sa not so tight privacy..
the more kasi that you are into one another. parang lumuluwag na ang privacy noh.??.. creates problems sometimes..

 

[skysolstice]

For me depende yan sa lalim ng pinagsamahan nyo ts

 

[_Bizarre]

Kung may tiwala kayo sa isa't isa, then hindi na kailangan. Kung wala naman kayo tiwala sa isa't isa, then maghiwalay na lang kayo kasi wala naman patutunguhan ang relationship na based on lies.

 

[Coocognito]

Palitan

Kung may tiwala kayo sa isa't isa, then hindi na kailangan. Kung wala naman kayo tiwala sa isa't isa, then maghiwalay na lang kayo kasi wala naman patutunguhan ang relationship na based on lies.

na ang name mo master bilang Dr. Love

 

[Coocognito]

Palitan

na ang name mo master bilang Dr. Love

Palitan na*

 

[_Bizarre]

Palitan na ang name mo master bilang Dr. Love

Haha. 'Di naman.

 

[PHC - Jheyms]

NO. hindi siya "DAPAT" kase unang una privacy yan. pero still depende pa rin yan. for me walang kaso yun pero ang mali dun is yung magbasa basa ka and then pag may nakita kang hindi maganda or ano man na na nasa past na tapos ibabalik mo pa sa present yun yung mali dun.

 

[Natnatfogee]

may mga babae kasi na ganyan.
(hindi ko po nilalahat)
parang yung ex ko
gusto nya alam nya lahat sakin
para bang walang tiwala
kaya ayun
nagpadale nalang sa iba

 

[glenzkieeee]

It's a big NO. kasi kung ibabasi natin yan sa code of ethics, hindi ang kasagutan diyan... ahahahahah