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Professora Akira

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Alam mo ‘yang term na “ghosting” which means “the practice of ending a relationship by suddenly stopping all communication with someone without any apparent warning,” ginagawa na ‘to even before maging popular ang social media or dating apps.
Pero nowadays, it seems “easier” to ghost, bakit?
“Ghosting as a strategy may have also gained popularity via new technology, as texting, online dating and social media have changed the way people connect, as well as how romantic partners find each other,”

Here let's find out why do people ghost?

Hindi pa siya emotionally matured.
‘Yung pagiging MIA or missing-in-action niya only proves na hindi niya pa kayang sumabak sa isang healthy and serious relationship.
“They don’t want to confront what it is that they’re feeling or they’re experiencing; it’s too hard for them,” says Karen Ruskin, PsyD, in an article You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. by Melissa Locker of Health.
For the ghoster, it is the easy route.
Mas madaling mang-ghost than to be in an awkward situation and explain why it did not work out for the both of you. Naiwas siya sa arguments and confrontations or the ghoster does not want to deal with other people’s feelings. Ganern.

Kaya ang ending they “simply cease all communication and hope the hint is delivered,”
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Belief in destiny and growth
In a recent study on You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now. by psychologist Gili Freedman PhD, people with “stronger destiny beliefs, compared to those with weaker destiny beliefs, saw ghosting as a more acceptable way of terminating a relationship. On the other hand, those with stronger growth beliefs, compared to those with weaker growth beliefs, saw ghosting as less acceptable.”
In short, para kay ghoster, pinagtagpo kayo pero hindi tinadhana kaya nawala na lang siya bigla.
Oh! ‘Wag mo sabihing hindi ka winarningan na makirot ‘to sa puso.
Possible reason din ay…

They have this mentality na marami pang iba diyan
“People are led to believe that there are millions of people to possibly date out there. Choices seem unlimited and the next best person may still be out there, so people lose interest quickly,” Lissy Ann Puno said, a psychologist, in an article .You do not have permission to view the full content of this post. Log in or register now..

Kung ano man ang rason ng nang-ghost sa ‘yo, you can learn how to let go of the hurt and bitterness so you can embrace the next chapter of your life.

And by next chapter, we mean discovering who you truly are and your purpose 1st.

‘Yang love life?
Darating ‘yan but one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself ay ang kagalingan ng heart mo at pagiging buo bago ka magmahal ng iba.


excerpt from: icanbreakthrough
 

Seidloif

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Next trivia mo naman kung ano yung mga gusto mo sa lalaki at kung papaano yung gusto mong panliligaw na gagawin sa'yo. Para naman may idea yung mga manliligaw mo dito sa PHC.
agree, sakin pupuntahan ko kagad yan sa bahay nila eh. sabay sundo ng kotse tas pasyal sa nature places hahaha
 

Professora Akira

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Next trivia mo naman kung ano yung mga gusto mo sa lalaki at kung papaano yung gusto mong panliligaw na gagawin sa'yo. Para naman may idea yung mga manliligaw mo dito sa PHC.
hala sya hahaha,..ba't naman nafocus ulit sa aking yung topic?

agree, sakin pupuntahan ko kagad yan sa bahay nila eh. sabay sundo ng kotse tas pasyal sa nature places hahaha
ay may kotse🤭

Well said and explained..Napaka-informative na thread po..LEGIT !!!
thanks 😊
 
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